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You’ve Got to Live Your Own Life

“Our life has to be our Message.” -Thich Nhat Hanh

Aunty Jean
2 min readMar 23, 2024
Photo by Annie Spratt on Unsplash

Sometimes all my efforts seem futile. I get frustrated with people who prefer to put blinders on, only wanting to see the peaceful, pleasant things, and shutting out anything that causes them discomfort.

“How can you not care?!,” I want to scream at them.

I find myself feeling powerless in the face of the ongoing evil. I understand why so many people give up, yet something deep inside me, a feeling that has been present for as long as I can remember, won’t allow me to stop trying to bring about a better world.

When I find myself totally discouraged, I stop, take some deep breaths, and remind myself that I’m on this earth to live my own life, and it’s not my place to try to live anyone else’s. They are living their own lives, and they are not requesting my interference.

Yet, I can set an example by the way I choose to live my life, at the same time realizing that others are not required to follow that example. I’m not some omniscient higher being , I am just another human being struggling along this path called life.

Of course, I can still take actions to call out what I perceive to be injustice; I can offer my own point of view in conversations and in my writing; I can take to…

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Aunty Jean
Aunty Jean

Written by Aunty Jean

Constantly curious, dog-loving, politically progressive, book-loving, vegan lady. I want to keep learning every day, exploring other points of view.

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