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Conversations with a teenager
One of my nephews came to stay with me for a week. He was 15 at the time, and we had lived far apart for most of his life. I looked forward to some one-on-one time. I remembered him as a curious 2-year-old. He had the most insightful questions as a toddler. I was delighted to find that he still possessed that same curiosity as a teenager.
I have been a long-time vegan. When he was 15, he loved meat, and I was sure to take him to a steak house. I do not believe in lecturing people on their food choices. I don’t espouse my views on veganism unless I am asked.
He asked.
Ever since I can remember, I had an aversion to animal products. I didn’t want to eat a cow, or a chicken, or a pig. I couldn’t see the difference between those animals and my pet dog. It took me years longer to also realize the sentience of fish, octopi, and shellfish.
I told my nephew about the cruelty of factory farming. How it is simply not true that people need meat to be healthy. And how Native Americans, who at times hunted so as not to starve, gave thanks to the animal for its sacrifice before killing it.
I then explained why, although I care deeply for animals, I don’t preach my message unless asked. It was a lesson from…
